Every relationship on earth has a very beautiful beginning, exactly like anything else in life, be it, the first pages of a newly bought book, the first day in school, the first ride on the bike or so.. As time passes, one gets used to it and that becomes an integral part of life. And it is not surprising, you long for a change then. This is the candor of life. But when it comes to relations, we refuse to accept it. It is quite natural, to get weary. Alarmingly, we still want to believe in clichés. Come on, the time has changed; you don’t have to impress anyone to be in a relationship.
It is a different season with relations. All is fair and fine until the L word. But, the road gets forked, as soon as the M word makes an entry. While girls tend to be away from the latter, guys does even more sturdily with the later. Commitment phobia is rather an anthem these days. It is just not because guys don’t want to take up responsibilities in life, it is just that they don’t want the relation to go any further and he is not male enough to put it straight. If they really care about it, they wouldn’t mind taking it further or at least give a convincible reason for that matter. But one needs to have guts to do that. For all the uncertain uncanny statements he gives, you feel like regretting being straight.
“but….if not now, when…?” and if you get a bloody uncertain bullshit,”….I don’t know…maybe when I’m okie with it...” be sure that you made a wrong choice. It is high time for you to get rid of him and look out for better brownies. No guy is worth that pain!!!
